"It is
impossible for ideas to compete in the marketplace if no forum for
their presentation is provided or available." Thomas Mann, 1896
Letter
from the President
John Hathaway-Bates
President & Executive Director
I guess that I am just a little too old fashioned for my own good sometimes,
in that I tend to trust people when they give me their word - and this last
month it has cost me dearly - in reputation and in cold cash. America
(come to that our whole profits based first world) is not what it once was my
friends, but then what is? One tries to operate in a civilized manner,
and the majority of people still both appreciate and return the favor - but
then, there will always be those who do not, or can not, understand that
this quarter's profit results are worth very little when compared to
the value of one's reputation.
Today
I do something I have never had to do before - I am removing a
Hotel from our recommended list of Business Forum Hotels. (http://www.bizforum.org/www_hotels.htm). I feel
therefore that it is only fair that
I explain why I am doing this, so that our Sponsors, Members, Supporters and
friends all over the world understand exactly why it is necessary for me to
do this, from my old-fashioned viewpoint - but I
pray that this is not going to be the wave of the future.
I have recommended the
Sutton Place Hotel in Newport Beach for many years, (in fact since the day it was
created out of the Le Meridian Hotel that proceeded it on the property), to both our friends and
sponsors and on our web site (We got 627,542 hits last month from all
over the World) - and now I wish to stop recommending this Hotel, as it appears that
what I have been recommending it for may no longer exist.
Note:
None of the Hotels on our "recommended" list have ever asked me to recommend them, nor have
they ever paid me
to do so. The fact is that I have just provided this service to my friends because I think that good
professional service should always be rewarded; and so
I took it upon myself many years ago to become an unpaid and amateur West Coast Hotel critic
for our friends and supporters.
The problem that I have today, is that there may be a lot of people out there planning events
at the Sutton Place Hotel in Newport Beach based upon my original
recommendation, and if they get the standard of service that I received this last
month they might well blame us for it, with all the legal consequences that
that entails.
As most of you know, we
have always held our Forums in the very best Hotels in the cities where we
operate, and so over the years we have built
up relationships with a list of Hotels where the service is exemplary and
the ambience of the property is far above average; where the Chef is brilliant and the waiters,
doormen, valets, etc. are polite, more than helpful and always courteous. During that time,
we have also built friendships with the staff of the Hotels we use to the
point where we accommodate them and they in turn accommodate us, when things
do not go exactly as planned. The examples of how we have worked with
our
hotels when they dropped the ball, are just as many as the times that they
have helped us when some Act of God, or a silly mistake on my part, made us do
exactly the
same.
There are few things that
ever go exactly to plan; and everyone makes a mistake now and then - but it is
how you put it right and make things work after the mistake is made that
really matters. It is upon
that philosophy that we choose the Hotels that go on our recommended list
and why I am doing what I am doing now by removing the Sutton Place Hotel in
Newport Beach from our recommended list.
For example,
When the
lights (and the air-conditioning) went out in San Francisco a few years back
we were holding a luncheon at the Park Hyatt Hotel. The staff were
efficiently amazing as they
dealt with the event, (proving beyond any doubt the value of quality training in Customer
Service), and as our meeting was being hosted in the basement (no windows), we were a
little fragmented for a while. We could have started demanding our money back, as many
did, but in fact not only did the meeting go very well under the dim emergency
lighting, as the temperature went up, and up, and up . . . . at the end of our slightly shortened
meeting the Hotel presented each of our guests with a small box of chocolate truffles
as they were leaving. They also forgot the guarantee and only charged
the sponsor for the number that actually attended and waived the costs of
valet parking for our guests - That is what I consider to be
Class!
Next: Once at the Le Meridian
Hotel, which became the Sutton Place Hotel, (the Hotel we are removing from
our list today,) we had twenty four guests arrive to find that the Hotel had
actually double booked the room we were to use for our lunch, and it was
already occupied with a presentation that had been going on since breakfast. My guests actually turned to
and helped the staff set up a table on the patio next to the bar; and
although we started fifteen minutes late, everything went fine. - It
never occurred to me to ask for a discount, or start waving my contract at
them - for such things do happen!
Next: When I became ill on the
plane going to San Francisco, the Westin Saint Francis Hotel not only sent a
town car to
pick me up, (I make a point of calling the Hotel when I first arrive in town
to double check everything is on line for a successful event), they gave me
a suite to rest up in before the lunch and called a doctor for me, (all at
absolutely no charge). I recovered and the meeting went better than anyone
could have imagined. (The sponsor’s representative did however looked visibly
worried throughout the event.) - That is what I call caring for the customer
and providing the epitome of old world service!
Next:
Once when we were organizing a
meeting for the Business Council of the United Nations, the Mexican
Ambassador to the UN arrived at the Sheraton Grande in Los Angeles the night
before to find a
few minor snafus had been made in the arrangements, which the hotel staff put
right immediately. What proved their exemplary level of service
however, was that the General Manager drove in from off property to
personally apologize for any inconvenience that might have been caused. -
That is hospitality!
Next:
A couple of months back at a
meeting we were holding at the River Place Hotel in Portland, I arrived to
find a beautiful table impeccably and beautifully laid for fifty people - for a lunch that we had
twelve people scheduled to attend. No one started waving a contract in
my face, or even tried to accredit blame or work out what had gone wrong, or who was to blame,
they just set to and re-set the room for twelve - even someone from the
front desk pitched in - That is pride and efficiency and service at the
highest level and no five star Hotel in London, Paris, Rome, Madrid or Vienna (and I
have used many of them) could have done any better!
Next:
When the Four Seasons
Olympic Hotel in Seattle changed management and became the Fairmont Olympic
Hotel, I got four phone calls (including one from the Fairmont in San Jose)
promising me that any arrangement I had had with the Four Seasons would be
honored by the new management and the departing Catering Director personally
introduced me to the incoming Director taking his position. That is
what "buying goodwill" is all about - and well proved the professionalism of
everyone involved!
Next:
Returning to the Palace Hotel in San Francisco last month after at least a
fifteen month absence, I found that today they serve only a buffet breakfast
- but one of the waiters in the Garden Court saw me wandering around
slightly dazed and came up to me and explained that I should take my usual
table and he would bring me "your two medium poached eggs, white toast, no
crusts and Worcestershire Sauce, Mr. Hathaway" - and how nice it was to see
me again. When a Hotel has staff like that, how can they fail?
In almost a quarter of a century we
have built up a list of such examples long enough to be a book.
But the most helpful
relationship we have with our Hotels, and what encouraged me to
recommend them to our friends, members, supporters and sponsors in the first
place, is that when events happen that could
jeopardize the success of the meeting, the staff at our Hotels always work
with us. In more than twenty years if I have ever had to reschedule a
meeting for any reason, provided I gave them enough notice (three or four
working days) every one of my hotels has always worked with me, and allowed
me to reschedule without charge. I work with Hotels that will even waive the
guarantee when a rainstorm, earthquake, traffic jam or something else,
reduces the number of guests that attend.
All of the Hotels we use
for our Forums also
know that all of the organizational details of every meeting we hold are always handled by us alone. (The sponsor
merely agrees to pay the costs of the event afterwards). In fact I
make a point of always
checking that the Hotel employee working with us (if they are new) understands
that we have a long term relationship with their establishment and I always
tell them to make sure they check our file so that everything is as it
always is for the event.
In other words, The
Business Forum brings the Hotel a great deal of business and the Hotel
returns the favor with a high standard of service and a presentation that is
always the same. Seeing as we have never asked for a kick-back,
commission or personal favor from them of any kind, why would they not do
so?
Until this last month it has
never failed - since 1982 until now. Last month however, it failed big time
at the Sutton Place Hotel in Newport Beach, California - and we shall not be
going back to them again!
I have worked with the
Sutton Place Hotel in Newport Beach, California for as long as it has
existed, and I have brought them dozens of clients that became repeat business for
them – my friends even held their daughter's marriages there - and we
have never asked for a reduced rate, a commission, a favor, or a
personal benefit of any kind,
beyond them providing good service, because the level of service that we
(and our friends) received until this last month was always
worth every penny that was charged for it.
But this time I was working with someone I had not worked with
before, so I went through the usual procedure with her, explained how we worked,
confirmed the details for the meeting by fax as we always do, and asked them to get just the payment details
from the Sponsor of the event concerned, but to work everything else through
me.
That, as far as I was
concerned, was that – I believed that the Sutton Place staff would do their usual exemplary job and everything
would work exactly as it always has. But it did not! It actually turned
into an experience that I would not wish upon anyone.
What happened was that a week before the
event it became apparent that the speaker would not be able to attend. So,
as always, I called the Hotel, explained the situation and asked if we
could put the meeting back a month. (I have phone records to prove the
calls of course) and I was told we could do that,
without charge as usual, and so of course, I believed what I was told.
Their word had always held up before!
Some days later
however, (the day before the original
date that the meeting was going to be held), the sponsor received a phone call from the
Catering Manager and was informed that a full Cancellation Charge would be
levied. The sponsor of course then called me - and I in turn called the Catering Manager, and the
result was that I learned that the Hotel had changed ownership, (no one had told
me that when I booked the event of course) and I was informed that our past relationship with them is now
irrelevant and the old arrangements no longer apply - (they did not tell me
that either when I booked the meeting). I was also told that
as the sponsor had signed the contract and was paying for the event, she (the
Catering Manager) had seen absolutely no reason to
communicate with me before the meeting. The sponsor had signed the contract and it would be
enforced.
I explained my
conversation with her assistant and the fact that we had not "cancelled" the
meeting, we had merely rescheduled it with almost a week's notice to put it
back a month - her reply was "Did you talk to me?" - I explained that she
had not been available when I called - she told me I should have called back
- and so on, and so on, until I finally asked if I might talk to the General Manager - to be
honest by that time I was in shock. Can I help it if her staff have
not been trained fully enough to report back to her?
The General Manager called me the next day; however he obviously did not want to listen to what I
was trying to explain to
him, he merely and I thought, very pompously, reworded his Catering Manager's position
almost exactly. I
explained to him in the most genteel words that I could muster, that I had called
a member of his staff and had rescheduled the meeting and I had been told
that there would be no charge as I had given them ample time to change the
arrangements - and his reply? "Did anyone confirm that to you in
writing" Again, can I help it if his staff have not been trained
well
enough to report back to him either? I took the word of his staff and
therefore I was duped into being placed into a position where it would
appear to my sponsor that I am breaking my word - and everything I am and
everything I do, depends upon people being able to accept my word as my
bond.
That of course should have been the end of conversation - for if
someone's word is only good if you get it in writing afterwards, well, what
is the point! What really hit me though, was that when I explained to
him that I had been working with the property for many years and had brought
them so much business they might want to make an exception for my sponsor
this one time - he replied something to the effect that as his company had
not owned the property back then, he was more interested in today's profits,
than he was in old relationships that I "might" have had with previous
owners. I really felt at that moment like going
out and rounding up a band of homeless people to take them there for lunch, so
that at least someone would benefit from the whole affair – but the
"new management" of the Hotel
probably has a rule against that as well! So, the question is, where
did the flowers and the food I am going to have to pay for go? - I guess that
God only knows, because no-one at the Sutton Place Hotel has been able to
tell me!
So now, I have a sponsor
that I have worked with for many years that believes that either I am an idiot, or
at the very least that I am losing my touch and making statements that do
not hold up. The end result being that as I told the sponsor there would be no
cancellation charge after I had rescheduled the meeting (as I was told by
the Sutton Place staff) – I am honor bound
to keep my word, and therefore I am on the hook for $850, as far as I can
understand, maybe more - and that is out of my personal pocket - for there
is no way that I can charge my naive belief in someone's word not kept off
onto my members! On top of that, my sponsor has been inconvenienced because the Sutton Place
Hotel already called them and told them that their credit card had been
charged -
before the General Manager even bothered to call me.
So as you can see, there is
absolutely no way that I can continue to recommend
an establishment that treats a long term repeat client like that to my sponsors,
members, supporters and friends. A Hotel that will not "work with me" is not a
hotel that I would work with again, nor can I recommend the place to anyone else - at least
not while it is
under the same unsophisticated and terribly rude management that begins every
conversation by not trusting anything the customer might say.
I went as far as to send a draft copy of
this letter to the General Manager of the Sutton Place Hotel, prior to
publishing it, explaining that all he needed to do was call my sponsor and
explain that there had been a misunderstanding and the "cancellation fee"
would be forgiven. Instead he called me and implied that he really did not care, as
he was sure no-one else would care what I thought anyway and so it would not
affect his business in any way!
My father always used to say “Never trust anyone you do business with who does
not trust you.” The reason being that someone who does not trust you, is
most likely “projecting” their own level of honesty and character upon
everyone else; and Hugh Saunders (one of my mentors and variously Corporate
Secretary for Lever Brothers, Director of the Diamond Institute, a Barrister
at the Inner Temple of the British Law Courts and my father’s Commanding
Officer during World War II, told me that “the best way to judge any
organization is to evaluate the people that they employ compared to your own
standards”.
Why is it we only remember good advice after we have forgotten to follow it?
So I would suggest to all of my
sponsors, friends, members and supporters that have a need to hold a meeting in
Southern Orange County that they call Sherrie Becker at the Westin South Coast Plaza
Hotel at 714-662-6616 - this lady is a professional and a real
gentleman, based upon
what I know of her and her treatment of us and our sponsors to date. She will keep her word and
she will treat you like a
friend - and you have my word that you will receive five star service and full
value for what you pay for and real and honest hospitality! (Mention my name if you wish).
How I miss the good old
days when a gentleman’s word was his bond, and when people told you
something they actually meant it; those wonderful days when the Innkeeper greeted
his guests by name with a handshake and a smile, (as the professionals at
our listed Hotels still do) as opposed to being greeted by
someone holding a contract in their hand and treating you as if you might
just be a criminal and that in some
way they are doing you a favor by taking your business and your money.
President &
Executive Director
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